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my ex dumped me 2 mo. ago but wants me back. I got w 2 other guys though, and I feel guilty. he keeps telling me hes not getting w other girls. im scared he will be mad at me if we get back tg. idk if we should, hes cheated on me before but i miss him.
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Anonymous 1d

DO NOT GET BACK TOGETHER! I agree with #1 it sounds like he’s trying to manipulate you and will likely try to use u being with two other guys after yall broke up against him especially because u feel bad about it. Also you shouldn’t feel bad about being with two other guys cause a) HE CHEATED ON YOU so you don’t owe him shit and b) yall were broken up, you didn’t cheat

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Anonymous 1d

he sounds like he's trying to be manipulative.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i feel awful for getting w 2 other guys though, it makes me feel like a whore. one of them i didnt like and kind of cut contact, the other one i do like and im close with, but i dont think he would ever want a relationship. i just feel worse knowing my ex isnt getting with anyone and is being super nice to me recently.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

you're describing how the manipulation works. he wants you back (after he dumped you) so he's trying to make you feel guilty for things you did after he left.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

yeah, i think im just really scared that if we get back together and i tell him i got with other people he wont want to anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

don't get back together...

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

i didn't even see the cheating part 💀

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