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I barely know this guy, we met in a class we both took. But we hung out one night with mutual friends and ended up chatting until like 3am. And I have never felt so connected to another person in so long, it takes so much for me to feel like that(below)
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Anonymous 6w

But now he won’t text back. He said he’s just super busy with work, but idk. He just got out of a relationship a bit ago so maybe he’s not ready. Or maybe I just misread the situation? Idk I just wish I could get some clarity bc connections like this are so rare for me. Any advice would be appreciated

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Anonymous 6w

This is almost exactly the situation I was in 3 months ago, except we met bc she approached me and gave me her number😭😭 I don’t have much advice to give here, hope you two can have a conversation soon

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I would honestly recommend just asking him straight up. I know it's cliché advice but finding a minute to talk to him in person or at least on the phone and saying "hey I felt like we had a really good connection and I don't want to lose that; do you feel the same?" Obviously make it sound like you and not me but you get the picture.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

I really want to, I’m just afraid my message will go unanswered like the last one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

yeah don't do it over text. it has to be in person or a phone call

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