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I have a low sex drive and my bf has a high sex drive. He wishes I dress hotter for him but I dress modestly because that’s my personal style. I’m not a horny person and I don’t get turned on easily. He’s ready for sex anytime. How can we ever get along??
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Anonymous 2w

Honestly I struggle with this too. Also, there must be a happy medium to where you can dress up for him and still have your style. I maybe for dates at least! And as for having low sex drive- he needs to understand how to warm you up. Communicate how you want to get turned on. Hope that helps

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Anonymous 2w

I have had a relationship ruined by this (with the genders flipped) so yeah idk

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Anonymous 2w

Idk… couldn’t deal w my partner and rly depends on each relationship how both ppl value sex.. but personally it was/is an important part of a relationship for me so idt I can rly be w someone who is into different things sexually than I am, me, being a very sexually open individual

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Thank you so much for this!

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