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Relationship Advice 2w
I yearn for a relationship now but I’m not super ‘pretty’ in conventional terms. Idk if I should just change myself so I have a higher chance of getting a relationship or if I should just accept that I won’t find one for a while. I js want someone to hold
#F22
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Anonymous 1w

I’m not either, but unfortunately people are right and confidence is a big thing. Don’t look in a mirror for a while if you can’t get the “I’m not pretty” out of you head. Tell yourself about your great personality everyday, make yourself laugh, it improves things. People are noticing you already, confidence makes them want to talk to you first is all

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Anonymous 1w

Wtf is a YEARN🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

adding to this bc building confidence is where its at - start figuring out your style, if you aren't sure of it! go thrifting, experiment with new clothes and styling (layering, accessories, etc). really figure out what makes you feel confident in yourself :)) "conventional attraction" is bs, and changes monthly. know and love yourself (and keep good hygeine ofc - shower daily, wash your face morning and night, deodorant ofc, a favorite perfume...etc)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

its a word lmfao look it up

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