Hi OP, I am a guy and a virgin by choice. I see the same paradox. Basically relationships don’t last nor families are forming. The internet is out entertaining anyone and people would rather be short term. It’s disillusionment of society.

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You can literally find a committed bf anywhere. You just don’t want them because most of them aren’t super attractive

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I know it seems hopeless, I didn’t get into my first relationship until I was 21. It is hard finding someone who will match with you and have the same desires for a lasting relationship. But I think the important thing is to put yourself out there and try to connect with people who are looking for the same thing. Dating apps I know can be shady with who you meet on there but it can be low stakes just to get some experience talking and going out on a date to see where things go

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