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So I just talking to a guy a week ago who’s very high functioning autistic (im adhd). we ended up hooking up twice this week even tho we both want a relationship and we haven’t been on an actual date yet and he’s away this weekend. Continued in comments
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Anonymous 6d

honestly I would just tell him how you feel, and that you want to be the only person he's talking to like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Is it too soon tho?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

if you've hooked up twice and you like him? no.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

It’s only been a week tho

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

idk maybe it's just me but I wouldn't hook up with someone if I didn't want to be the center of their romantic attention

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

He told me he isn’t hooking up with anyone else. And we both want a relationship we just both got impulsive

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

I’m legit so anxious abt this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

the only solution is communication. I know I sound like a therapist but honestly, just give him a call (or plan something for tonight, if you can) and talk it over. if it's bugging you this much, it's worth just getting it all out in the open. no matter how it goes, you'll know where you stand.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

He’s out of town but I haven’t heard from him all day which is incredibly unusual. I sent him a text to make sure everything is ok and I haven’t heard back. I think he may have chosen her over me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I'm sorry. I know the feeling, if it's any consolation. But don't catastrophize to soon; people are just plain busy sometimes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Yeah and I’m probably jumping to conclusions but sometimes I find it easier to assume they don’t want me than to sit around and hope that they do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

it's a reasonable course of action, but don't freak yourself out to the point where you can't imagine anything good happening.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Too late 🫠

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