Relationship Advice on Yik Yak | Ive been with my bf for a year now for reference. Whenever i bring up anything long term; marriage, apartment after college, etc. He shoves it off and gets really upset. It makes me SUPER anxious that he’s not actually in this long term (rest in comments)

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Relationship Advice 4w

Ive been with my bf for a year now for reference. Whenever i bring up anything long term; marriage, apartment after college, etc. He shoves it off and gets really upset. It makes me SUPER anxious that he’s not actually in this long term (rest in comments)

Anonymous 4w

Today he decided to post in the gc he was talking with his gay friend today abt moving in together after college. Mind you, he has experimented with him before. I had thought we had worked things out and we were gonna move in together after college (in 2-3 years). Im planning on getting an apartment with my best friend next year bc campus living is so terrible at my school, and he was thinking of also moving in with me. Can someone pls just give me some advice.

Anonymous 4w

In my opinion, a bit over a year is still too early to know if you wanna be with someone long term/marry them. We still need more time to get to know someone better, I think.

Anonymous

OP 4w

He’s an all around amazing bf otherwise but I don’t feel like he’s committed to me

Anonymous

#1 4w

He could address it better, though, and not act that way. Try to talk to him and tell him how him doing that makes you feel. HOWEVER, the gay friend who he experimented with thing…idk tbh