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i miss my ex boyfriend a lot. it’s all consuming and i am filled with regret and sadness. we broke up for fair reasons but i wish it didn’t happen because i know what i could’ve done to fix it and now im getting the help i needed. it hasn’t gotten better
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Anonymous 19h

i don’t know how to make this go away and i have no way to bring him back but god i would do anything to have one more chance

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Anonymous 10h

Sometimes the only way people can grow is to grow separate from eachother. Sometimes you can try again and it works out, but realistically do you want to be with someone who wasn’t willing to stay and help you grow and help you get better when you were struggling? I went through a similar break up about two months ago and that’s the conclusion i’ve landed on. It hurts, but it’s helped me get out of that feeling that I need him back. I don’t know if it would help anyone else, but I hope it does ❤️

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Anonymous 18h

Go get him back 😏 fix the issues and start over again

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Anonymous 17h

I tried to get mine back too. And it’s been a year and 3 months. I feel so lost and have a really hard time connecting with others

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Anonymous 17h

i want to hear all of your stories like more in depth but i don’t want to dm any of you, would there be a possibility that you can describe your situation in these comments?

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Anonymous 16h

I feel this boo and I’m sorry for you ma’am. I wish you nothing but the best.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

I relate to this so much.. I felt like I had to leave for him to realize how he was treating me but honestly I don’t think he ever will I yearn for him everyday crave his presence so bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11h

was really depressed bf broke up with me as a genuine act of kindness and love and trying to make a change in my life for me and now im better and getting better and i want to try again because what if it didn’t work because i was depressed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

so why would leaving you be an act of kindness?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10h

nothing changes if nothing changes— he knew i wasn’t strong enough to do it and that it might send me on a path to helping myself (he was right) and also i wasn’t kind to him as a result of how i was doing, and he poured so much of himself into our relationship that it was starting to effect him more than a healthy and happy relationship should

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10h

he bent over backwards for me constantly and really really put in the work i wasn’t able to for a long long time

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