
Sometimes the only way people can grow is to grow separate from eachother. Sometimes you can try again and it works out, but realistically do you want to be with someone who wasn’t willing to stay and help you grow and help you get better when you were struggling? I went through a similar break up about two months ago and that’s the conclusion i’ve landed on. It hurts, but it’s helped me get out of that feeling that I need him back. I don’t know if it would help anyone else, but I hope it does ❤️
nothing changes if nothing changes— he knew i wasn’t strong enough to do it and that it might send me on a path to helping myself (he was right) and also i wasn’t kind to him as a result of how i was doing, and he poured so much of himself into our relationship that it was starting to effect him more than a healthy and happy relationship should