Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
Been talking to this girl for the last month, I feel we’ve been dating because of everything we’re doing together and places we go, allat. Not officially dating yet and I made her a poster and a flower bouquet of her favorite flowers, she wants more time.
upvote 3 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 1w

She told me it was so sweet of me but she wants to think about it and get to know me on a deeper level. I guess I read her wrong but I felt very ready to ask her the question.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1w

I asked her where I stood with her and she said she didn’t know, I asked if “we were at least exclusive, right?” And she told me she didn’t think so. I’m feeling horrible about that and to me I felt we’ve been exclusive.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1w

With the amount of effort I’m putting in to planning things to do and literally everything I’ve done so far, my friends think she might see me as love bombing, and lowkey I could agree with that. She fears that’s what I’m doing and wants to have options because of that. Understandable! But I’m feeling sick to my stomach because I thought everything would have gone more to “plan” with being in a relationship rn.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1w

I want to reassure her that I only have good intentions with her and want to be with her and keep being consistent with the things we do together and activities we go out and do. She said sitting down with her and having the conversation about all of this stuff showed her enough already that I want this. Is this cooked??

upvote 1 downvote