Anonymous #1 1w

I mean I have already told him I like him. Is that not enough 🤣😭😓🥲 Also he lives like half an hour away from me so like over text!?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeah over text ask if he wants to go somewhere on a date say go to a restaurant or go do something fun

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Anonymous #1 1w

Oh I already asked him and he said we should go mini golf but he hasn’t like said a day or if it’s an actual date or not

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Anonymous OP 1w

Damn from what you’ve said I hate to say he might not be interested or he’s talking to someone else and might be waiting his options if he’s not actively trying but could be he’s busy rn

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Anonymous #1 1w

This is like what I’m thinking. He’s giving mixed signals so I’m like debating on whether or not to just straight up ask him

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeah I’d still go for it if you want but don’t get you hopes up on him

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Anonymous OP 1w

On the other hand if your looking for a long term relationship he’s probably not ideal

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Anonymous #1 1w

I think I might wait. Cuz he did say that we might be able to meet up soon. If we do, i will see how he acts and stuff and go from there. Thank you so muchhhh x

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Anonymous OP 1w

Your welcome I hope it works out and I hope I can get a date like that some day I’ve never been on one lol

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Anonymous #1 1w

Me neither! That’s why I’m kinda like second guessing everything 🤣

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeah I overthink things too sadly most of the time I’m right but it is what it is right?

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Anonymous #1 1w

Yeahhh it is! I can’t control it, it just kinda happens

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Anonymous OP 1w

It sucks cuz I end up isolating myself bc of it a lot

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Anonymous #1 1w

really!? I feel like maybe I don’t isolate myself, but I tend to keep it to myself and like just sit in silence with it 😭😭

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeah like i wouldn’t go out and if doomscrolling or be on yikyak

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Anonymous #1 1w

damnnn

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Anonymous OP 1w

It’s kinda sad but I got a party in going to Friday hopefully that works out and I find someone I like that I can date

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Anonymous #1 1w

Ahhh! Good luck!!!

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Anonymous OP 1w

Thx I’m actually so nervous about it lol

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Anonymous #1 1w

You’ll be fineee!!! Try to be as confident as you can, find a couple of people to talk to to begin with and expand from there!!

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Anonymous OP 1w

I’m rushing for that frat too so I’m know some people the frat doesn’t haze so that’s nice

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Anonymous #1 1w

It’s good that you’re setting up!! BUT A BASEMENT WITH SAND! I’ve never been to a proper party so that’s like crazy to me 🤣

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Anonymous OP 1w

It’s insane we have to build a container for it with tarps so clean up will be easier the theme is a beach

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Anonymous #1 1w

Omg that’s like so cool! 😭

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Anonymous OP 1w

It’s gonna be fun to make

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Anonymous #1 1w

I can imagine!!

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Anonymous OP 1w

Also kinda weird but could I hear what happens kinda invested now lmao if things work out just like comment back here later on cuz I’m curious

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Anonymous #1 1w

Omg ofc! Thats if anything does happennnn 😭😭 but you will get updates ofc

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Anonymous OP 1w

Sick thank you I’ll keep u updated if anything crazy happens at that party

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Anonymous #1 1w

Yesss!!! 🙌

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Anonymous OP 1w

The amount of stolen stuff in that basement is insane

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Anonymous #1 1w

Woahhhh!? Like what??

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Anonymous OP 1w

Giant signs from my college different light up signs as well stop signs crosswalk signs you name it

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Anonymous #1 1w

Omggg 🤣🤣

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Anonymous #2 1w

I’ve decided I’m gonna wait till we meet and then just straight up ask him 😭😭

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Anonymous #3 1w

Perhaps I should just ask him straight up and get it over with now

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Anonymous #1 1w

Right, I have a question. How does this sound, cuz I think I might just message him rn. “(his name)!! Hi!! So I’ve been told by a couple of people to genuinely just come out with it and ask you this. You know I like you, like no secret there at this point, so ig what I’m trying to say is, do you like me too? Because it’s totally fine if not, but I’d rather just know than keep guessing, yk? At least then I can stop overthinking everything 🤣👀”

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Anonymous OP 1w

I think it’s good

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Anonymous #1 1w

But I’d wait for more peoples opinions first

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Anonymous #1 1w

I think I might do it… I’ve asked like 2 chats on here and a couple of my friends. I can’t just sit and wait any longer, it’s been over a month of talking. If he doesn’t like me back, I’ll get over it eventually

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Anonymous OP 1w

Go for it gl

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Anonymous #1 1w

Thank youuu

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Anonymous #1 1w

I’ve still not sent it… I’m a little nervous 😭😭

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Anonymous OP 1w

You got this go for it

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Anonymous #1 1w

It’s like ripping off a band aid

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Anonymous #1 1w

Just do it

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Anonymous #1 1w

I did it. Omg 😭😭

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Anonymous #1 1w

That was easier than I thought it would be icl. Ig now we just wait

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Anonymous OP 1w

Any response yet?

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Anonymous #1 1w

Oh I forgot to update lmaooo! So he said that he likes me too and he can’t wait to see where this is gonna go. But he hasn’t like asked me out yet. Which honestly, like idk, we’ve only met once and haven’t known each other that long, and if he was gonna ask me out, I’d rather it be in person. But I won’t get to see him till after next week cuz he’s going away for a week

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Anonymous OP 1w

Nice that great

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Anonymous #1 1w

Ig I’ll just have to see what’s gonna happen when we meet up and stuff!

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Anonymous OP 1w

Honestly girl he’s playing games with you. Do you wanna be with someone who clearly cannot be serious and straightforward with important issues?

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Anonymous #3 1w

If it were me, I’d send something along the lines of “(Name), as you already know, I have feelings for you. I have asked multiple times if you return them and you have dodged the question. This is stressing me out, so I will ask one more time. If you answer anything other than yes or no, I will take it as a no, and would like to begin moving on if that is the case”

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Anonymous #3 1w

This is gonna sound really stupid of me, but I like him too much to just let it go? Yk? I asked him last night and he’s said he likes me and wants to see where it goes. But eventually, I know that if he doesn’t do anything about it, I will have to back away and try and get over it 😭💔

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Anonymous #3 1w

If he dodges it again, tell him you will be taking that as a no and would like to cut contact in order for you to protect you peace (if that’s possible/what you want)

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Anonymous #3 1w

Idk if you saw my other comment, but it pretty much sums up everything that’s happened 😭😭

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Anonymous OP 1w

But i feel like it’d be so hard to go no contact after he’s become like such a constant person in my life. Like for over a month, we have been messaging. But he’s become like a best friend to me. So in a way, I do hope he does do something with what’s happened

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Anonymous OP 1w

I think we hit post at the same time haha or something. I didn’t see it when I posted that last comment. If he wants to see where things go then that’s one thing but don’t let him lead you on

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Anonymous #3 1w

I won’t! I’m gonna give him a bit of time but like all in all, if it’s been like so many months and he’s not done anything, I’ll just straight up ask him what he’s doing 🤣🤣

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Anonymous #1 6d

How did the party go??

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Anonymous OP 6d

I couldn’t loosen up at all I ended up going back to my dorm room

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Anonymous #1 6d

However yesterday I matched with this girl on a dating app and things are going pretty well so far

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Anonymous #1 6d

Awww that’s really sweet! Even if the party didn’t go as planned!!! I’m happy for you!

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Anonymous OP 6d

Thx I hope it goes well

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Anonymous #1 6d

Thank youuuu

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Anonymous OP 6d

How’s ur situation going with that guy any changes?

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Anonymous #1 6d

There might be a Halloween party happening. We aren’t sure yet. But his friend that Ik was inviting people and he asked if I could come!!! So that’s rlly good I think!

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Anonymous OP 6d

That’s good but thats also gonna be in a while

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Anonymous #1 6d

Yeahhh! I think we are gonna meet before my birthday though which is early October so that’s a plus! I also literally just got a notification that says he reacted to my story with “😍” and it’s a picture of me soooo 🤭🤭

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Anonymous OP 6d

Thats amazing

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Anonymous #1 6d

It is!!!

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