So I’ve been talking to this girl on and off the past few months and I can’t shake the feeling that she’s just using me for attention. Like she’ll text me first but won’t make any effort in going on dates etc. Am I cooked or just over thinking things?
It's entirely possible she's doing that but even if she's not, you shouldn't be getting the vibe that you're doing all the work
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Anonymous10w
Just communicate that to her. It’s like this generation has no idea how to talk to women.
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Anonymous10w
There’s a possibility she could just be shy or nervous
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Anonymous6w
Truly it should be easy. If she is not putting in the time for you to show her interest in you, I’d move along. What someone won’t do, someone else will.
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Anonymous10w
All girls want attention, only real women want genuine connection