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I planned an elaborate stay at home Valentines night and my bf said he was busy last minute and then said he’d make it up to me if I was able to get a perfect score on a test. What do I do with this?
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Anonymous 6d

Okay this is gross. Love and effort should never be conditional in a relationship.

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Anonymous 6d

I’m sorry what? Was he making a joke about the test and is actually gonna make it up to you?

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Anonymous 6d

Hold tf on

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Anonymous 6d

He gay

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Anonymous 6d

and why are you planning everything

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Anonymous 5d

DROP HIM

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Also not to question but what happened? He just got “busy” at night on Valentine’s Day. Seems a lil sus tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

He’s not the joking type in this sense and he’s very serious that I have to get a perfect 100 on a history test that I have coming up before he’ll make any “extra effort” (his words).

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

That’s weird tbh. He should wanna put effort in regardless or else what’s the point? Making it conditional on something that’s damn near impossible is crazy. He’s your partner not your parent.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Sounds like the exam is just an excuse for him to not have to show up in the relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

He came home from work and jumped on video games with a co-worker (co-worker is a guy). Co-worker isn’t dating anyone and as my bf said they made plans and he forgot. And then he said that he’d make it up to me if I got the perfect score. Nothing sus in a cheating way, but it doesn’t feel great that he chose guy time when I told him I made plans for us. Especially when he answered the way he did

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Yeah, that’s what I’ve been thinking too, but I also feel too close to the situation to feel like I’m thinking clearly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

That’s fair to be skeptical but that’s what it looks like. Also it’s icky for him to go play with a friend instead of hang with you on Valentine’s Day. Idc if he “forgot”, you should have came first on Valentine’s Day

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