Anonymous #3 1d

right but like so is 18 and 21 and I find that weird so I’m having trouble seeing no issue here (as the 22 y/o)

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Anonymous OP 1d

(but also as someone who has had several relationships and this being the safest and healthiest partner I’ve been with) (also both first time wlw if that helps)

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Anonymous OP 1d

It’s not weird at all, wtf

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Anonymous #1 1d

but are you saying that because you’ve been older in that situation and are partially covering yourself or because you’ve been younger and partially covering for YOURself or is this objectively such a "not big deal" that I’m overcomplicating this because I have heard all three and cannot fathom the idea of a secret fourth option at this point

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Anonymous OP 1d

no it's literally not weird. this is highly nonscientific but I have to imagine like 50% of all relationships have something like a 2-3 year gap

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Anonymous #3 1d

THAT is actually crazy. yes, some of the most successful relationships I know have that age gap. I never meshed well with people in my grade, I actually mostly hung around people my senior, so this has been all new territory for me.

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Anonymous OP 1d

And what grade are you in now, young lady?

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Anonymous #1 1d

16th

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Anonymous OP 18h

Nice

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Anonymous #5 13h

That is definitely weird

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Anonymous #2 13h

I didn’t feel like the right person to say that but yes that is weird.

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Anonymous OP 10h

It’s not weird!! You people are tripping!!’ It’s perfectly normal!!!

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Anonymous #1 10h

25 and 19 is definitely questionable

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Anonymous #1 10h

#5 is ALMOST 20….when their man was 23 #5 was at PROM. am I wrong or is there room for concern here??

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Anonymous OP 10h

Bro the OP said they started dating at 19 & 22. That’s a three year difference. Thats basically a senior dating a sophomore, probably. I remember starting to date my favorite ex gf when she was 20 and I was 23. We tried not to have sex for the whole first month we were hanging out and kissing all the time. And that would have been right about Valentine’s Day and that was our plan but we both lost self control when we went drinking on her 21st birthday like a week before v-day. I caught her…

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Anonymous #1 10h

…making out with two different guys at two different bars on her birthday while we were out drinking, and for some reason it super turned me on sooo fucking hard I couldn’t even interrupt them and I had to keep watching her because she was just the hottest kisser ever. So passionate. She thought I didn’t notice she was making out with other guys, until I was drunk enough to pull her aside and try to tell her how hot it was to see her making out and I wanted her to do it again before we went home

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Anonymous #1 10h

:O

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Anonymous #1 10h

And first she was all intrigued and pleasantly surprised but then she had another drink and started to get mad at me for letting her keep kissing both of those guys for like several minutes straight, and she felt like I was spying on her. But I was like, “we were in public, out together on a date, and I go to the bathroom for five minutes and you’re already tonsil deep down some jocks throat right there at the bar… you knew I’d come back from the bathroom and see what you were doing. It’s cool..

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Anonymous #1 10h

bruck (bruh + cuck) wtf i did NOT ask for your backstory what in the world

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Anonymous #1 10h

…we weren’t like officially “together” yet at the time so I felt she was allowed to hook up with other guys. I even told her she could keep fucking her fuck buddy ;(her favorite dick from her freshman year in the dorms) and her friend with benefits (her best male friend in town) and her booty call guy (some hot guy she met at a bar a while back) and her lover (the one she liked to calm her lover was like twice our age and married to some hot bitch who wouldnt fuck him anymore so my girl liked to

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Anonymous #1 10h

…to be his sexy little sex kitten, and I thought the whole thing was pretty wildly hot, so…) yea, but anyway, I told her she might as well keep fucking all her side dudes until she and I actually do have sex, then she should stop fucking other guys for a while. She agreed. We made it about two more hours after that talk. Lol. And we fucked 8 times the first 24 hours of fucking each other. Sometimes I didn’t even have a refractory period in between rounds and I could stay hard and stay inside her

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Anonymous #1 10h

pipe down cuckhold I’m trying to learn about age gaps

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Anonymous #1 10h

…the whole time, like multiple rounds in a row toward the end, just hours and hours straight. It was the hottest sex ever (so far, anyway, because it got hotter and hotter our whole relationship pretty much). And she still fucked each of her other boyfriends at least a few more times over the next few weeks or couple of months while we were newly “together,” I figured she might as well keep having sex with them for a while and wind it down naturally and feel like she had closure on those penises

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Anonymous #1 10h

category 5 yapper over here jesus christ

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Anonymous #3 10h

I thought i was going insane i am notttt reading all that

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Anonymous #1 10h

what that gotta do with an age gap jesus 😭

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Anonymous OP 10h

personally i don’t think it’s weird, we’re very communicative, and understanding which each one’s other. there’s no “power dynamic” and it’s going good for both of us. idk why everyone is trippin

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Anonymous #4 10h

truly it’s just how YOU feel about it

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Anonymous #1 10h

genuinely STFU

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Anonymous #3 10h

can i ask why?

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Anonymous #5 10h

I didn’t read the rest because you lowkey probably dropped an erotic horror story on my post but I will say if you feel the need to give so much detail that no one asked for then you probably recognize that it’s weird and are trying to rationalize that it’s not. I don’t appreciate this kind of talk on a post that I am near positive had 5% to do with what I am asking about and am gonna ask you to stop.

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Anonymous OP 10h

we met both out of hs i dont rly see the issue lol

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Anonymous OP 10h

i was not the one to drop the story LMAO that was someone else

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Anonymous #5 9h

oh fuck my bad, #5 you are good. at the end of the day, my biggest concern as someone who’s had a 5 yr age gap and was the younger, is you looking back and feeling like partner was aware and took advantage of you being 19. or things you may not know as much on that he would’ve had more time to figure out (financial, self, romantic, emotional) and him having a sort of advantage over these areas. or red flags/things to look out for in a partner (I now would never date who I thought I liked at 19)

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Anonymous #1 9h

ur fucking nutz my message starting with "I didn’t read the rest" is about YOU you gotta GOOO

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Anonymous OP 9h

no totally understandable but i mean we are both very communicative and understanding with each other so don’t don’t think the age gap is an issue, i see how it could be but truly this is the healthiest relationship i’ve ever been in LOL

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