Anonymous #1 5d

Lied to me about crossing a boundary I had set previously

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Anonymous OP 5d

Can you be more specific

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Anonymous OP 5d

So all of this is because he enjoys a little porn? You’re the one that sounds like she needs the therapy not him tbh

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Anonymous #1 5d

Sounds like you need some too if you can’t understand the importance of boundaries in and outside a relationship 💞 hope you get the help you need

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Anonymous #1 5d

Doesn't matter your opinion on it if he promised he wouldn't do it and then he did

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Anonymous OP 5d

The same thing happened to me. We were able to make it work, but it legit took me 2 years to fully trust him again and sometimes I still have moments where I get freaked out. I’m happy that we were able to work through it and he got better, but part of me wonders if I did the right thing by staying, if I would have been happier if I had stood up for myself more. At the end of the day, only you can decide if it’s worth it for you to give him another chance❤️

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Anonymous #3 5d

Thank you so much for this response. It’s honestly the most helpful response I’ve gotten from anyone 💞 I’m mostly upset that he can lie to me so easily, yk? I hope I can work through it, but I’m trying not to force anything either way, so we will see 😊

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Anonymous OP 5d

Of course❤️ I wish that someone could have talked with me about this when it happened to me Absolutely. It wasn’t the porn, it was the lying and the continued lying. It was so crazy to me that he could lie to me without a second thought, and make me feel like I was crazy for being suspicious. I spent so many days just wondering how much he had lied to me about. I’m here if you need to talk about any of it. It’s good that you’re not trying to force anything, it’s a complicated situation

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