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My bf of 2yrs has been hanging out with a friend group since the beginning of the year. I’m happy he’s making friends but I’ve noticed that a certain girl is always with him and although he brushes it off as a friendship I’m not so sure what to think?
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Anonymous 17w

Girl been there w my ex and its not fun at all 😭 If as you say you have communicated it before and he knows its bothering you… like something so small can put you guys at jeopardy… why isnt he doing anything to make you feel better? In my case if I tell my man that I dont feel comfortable bc I dont trust the girl he just distances himself w out me asking for it. It doesn’t mean he leaves the entire friend group its just him taking a step back. Same has gone for me, I take a step back.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

Ugh Ik but he says he can’t just “avoid her” because it’s not fair to him to have to adjust who he hangs out with because of me. It makes him feel less independent. I think that’s bs but I’m not sure how to tell him to take a step back without making him feel the way he does?

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