Relationship Advice on Yik Yak | My girl is trynna be a surgeon and make $500k a year. However, she can’t get it through her head that her career means very little to me and that that doesn’t make me intimidated. What’s intimidating is the high ass divorce rate especially when women lead

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My girl is trynna be a surgeon and make $500k a year. However, she can’t get it through her head that her career means very little to me and that that doesn’t make me intimidated. What’s intimidating is the high ass divorce rate especially when women lead

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Anonymous 1d

Bro she isnt trying to be intimidating, she’s got her own goals and ambitions and wants to feel supported

Anonymous 1d

You’re a piece of shit and do not deserve to be dating her

Anonymous 1d

guys this is rage bait. block and move on.

Anonymous 1d

as a high earning woman, we don’t care

Anonymous 13h

The high divorce rate is because women can afford to leave and men don’t pull their weight (bc men thinks paying the bills is enough). The women who are poor have lower divorce rate not bc they have happy marriages but bc the woman literally is stuck and cannot leave. So yes… it intimidates you bc now you have yo be a good man both before and after marriage

Anonymous 23h

“Her career means very little to me” ever think she’s pursuing it out of her own ambitions not because it’s what you want or not? And that as a partner you should instead be supportive and get rid of your own insecurities about stupid things? Because let me clear something up for you, you’re not intimidated you’re insecure. You’re making up this bs excuse about divorce rates “especially when women lead” instead of just saying you don’t want to get married and it would make you insecure for your

Anonymous 17h

I get not caring that much about your partners profession but what’s the point of trying to get that through her head?

Anonymous 13h

I’m wrapped up tho. Yall got it

Anonymous 1d

But most dont care about it. Obviously not discrediting it but the calling men insecure or intimidated bc we don’t want something is delusional. Women around commit the vast majority of divorces but it’s even worst when they earn more money unfortunately. Thats a reason i don’t care about it or prefer it

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Anonymous

#2 1d

How am I a piece of shit ??? Literally said nothing wrong

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Anonymous

#3 1d

No she said the same thing that all women say when a man doesn’t care about her income. “They must be insecure/ intimidated”. It was brought up because most of the men in her classes are wifed up and the women struggle to find a man that wants a high earning woman

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Anonymous

OP 1d

Some people might feel be intimidated by it, some people are just crazy insecure in general, and other people will think it’s awesome. Nobody is the right person for everyone

Anonymous

#4 1d

#3 is literally the only reasonable person here. It is yikyak after all so there’s a lot of stupid and emotional people on the app

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Anonymous

OP 1d

You say “commit divorces” as if it’s a crime

Anonymous

#7 23h

Wife to make a lot more than you. Because when a couple really wants to be there for each other, statistics fly out the window and they overcome all odds. There are many many many happy and successful marriages where the woman makes more, you’re just clinging to a statistic to backup your bs and your insecurity and I would even argue your lack of desire to even marry. If you don’t want to marry a dr fine but don’t try to stop her from becoming one, fuck yourself and leave her alone to find a man

Anonymous

#7 23h

That will actually be supportive of her and deserves her.

Anonymous

#7 21h

Nobody is trying to stop her.. point is if she was a server or a doctor it doesn’t matter to me. The fact that it matters to all yall means yall don’t actually love your partner.. def not insecure or intimidated. The divorce statistic MATTERS. Several men have tried and got divorced. I’d be stupid to not consider the facts because making a big decision. Would you eat a cake if you had 50% chance of getting diabetes? No you wouldn’t. But I agree that people will figure it out if it’s worth it.

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Anonymous

OP 21h

Also, only 16% of marriages have the wife make more

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Anonymous

#5 21h

It’s still the right word lol bro people down vote just to downvote on this app😂 they can dislike the truth tho. Fine by me

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Anonymous

OP 13h

Bc it’s true. She can afford to leave. Now men have to be good a good partner before and after marriage

Anonymous

OP 13h

Finance is the number one reason for fights in divorce. So how much do you make? You gotta be making at least 400k before you can say things like “i don’t care what she does”. - we spent over 60k on childcare alone. So yes, money doed matter.

Anonymous

#8 13h

The better way is “that’s great hunny. I support your dreams. Do whatever you want”

Anonymous

OP 13h

Women are expected to work and still do most of the unpaid labor and not even appreciated. “Commit divorce” - file. Mt father cheated and demanded a divorce, my mom filed. She’s part of that 70% stats. Bc filing is unpaid labor. Also remind me, don’t men commit like 95% of spousal murders?

Anonymous

OP 13h

It’s not. Filing and causing the divorce are two diff things. You can cheat and she can file for divorce. Or she can cheat, and you ask her to file for divorce. Both would come off as the woman filing divorce

Anonymous

#9 13h

Affordability was never a problem since you get half of everything. Women always want more or think they can get someone better. Seen it multiple times that women leave because there “bored” or “have to find themselves”. Plus there are a lot of single women keeping women single too. Obviously, both genders got bad apples but 1 genders stays and one leaves

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Anonymous

OP 13h

You should show her your yikyak account

Anonymous

#9 13h

I’m not saying there aren’t some with good reason but the point is women break up the relationship more than men. You act like majority of men just kill there spouse lol

Anonymous

#5 13h

Hahah maybe💀