Based on this limited context, don’t let your mom get to you. She’s projecting her own shitty relationship onto your seemingly great one. And be careful with that- if she whispers in your ear long enough it will start to get to you without you even realizing.

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He is everything I could have wished for in a boyfriend. He has a lovely family, a hard working job and literally does everything a boyfriend should do and has raised the bar if there was ever a day to part. My mother as of recent has been whispering in my ear to leave him because I am graduating soon. Saying “oh you need to experience life and not be tied down”. I am not “tied down” I know that for a fact.

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(3) I feel insane because I know this will work out. I am not going to let her stop me. But part me aches that I don’t know where this is coming from. I genuinely ask her why I should break up and she just “you have such an amazing career coming up, you don’t want him to question your every move”. And which I say to that is “he wouldn’t.” She has been trying to draw parallels to her failed marriage as well but even I know better than to date a man like that.

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My man has been through thick and thin with me. When it came to going to court against my father, living by myself in a different state and navigating my career and my future. It pains me to think about not talking to him after everything we have been through. I get told by her that I am being dramatic and that I have my rose colored glasses on. I just can’t take her seriously as well drawing the parallels to my ex-father.

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Hmmm your mom seems jealous . Your bf seems to be sweet and kind to you, that’s rare, keep this man by your side until he shows you otherwise. Don’t listen to your mom, listen to your heart.

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