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Has anyone felt they’re about to fumble their best relationship so far by asking for a breakup?
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Anonymous 1d

Why break up then

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Anonymous 10h

in the same boat, I have an amazing boyfriend and he’s never done anything wrong and he treats me so well but there’s just something off that I can’t place. I have thoughts of breaking up but feel so so hesitant about it bc he’s such an amazing boyfriend and feel like I’d make a huge mistake. like it feels impossible to end things but I know I’ll always have a lingering thought in the back of my head

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

not happy, full of self doubt and lacking intimacy but by far the most wholesome dating experience Ive ever had

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Have you considered trying to talk abt it before resorting to a breakup? Like express that you’re not happy/your needs aren’t being met, maybe they’d be willing to chance, but if they don’t see the issue w it they might be under the impression everything is fine.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Ive tried, the conversations have become increasingly emotional in the past month where I say all of the above and we just kind of end up nowhere with it. I think she’s making an attempt but then she says she wants to go on dates again and I wish I had the willpower to do that stuff and try to court her again but my rationale is that there’s no guarantee I do that and we both become fulfilled overnight.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

they know everything is not fine but the conversation always steers away from my needs and becomes an endless cycle of calling each other out and doing it again the next week.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

look I went to breakup and after a looooong conversation we said we’d give each other another shot since we got everything out of our chest. Time will tell but honestly whatever you do try to keep an open mind u never know their perspective until you give yours.

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