Anonymous #1 5w

Well okay, here’s the thing both me and her work in the same lab. Recently we’ve been watching S2 of DandaDan on the weekends in a conference room at work cause I was too scared to invite her over to my place. However I sent her a tiktok that was like a “date idea” of watching pirates of the Caribbean with fancy snacks (it didn’t say date idea) and she said that maybe we should do that for Halloween cause it look like it’d be fun! So I’m planning on trying to do something for that

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Anonymous OP 5w

Honestly sounds like yall are dating at this point already 💀 just ask her out for real please

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Anonymous OP 5w

Okay!!!!! Good luck!

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Anonymous mother_russia 5w

I gave her the option of watching it at my place or in a conference room at work. She chose the conference room since we are going to watch as soon as we are finished in lab. But I feel embarrassed to talk to her. I’m over analyzing too much. We went out for drinks with another person from our lab last Saturday and the conversations turned questionable (discussing past ex’s/boners/spicy picture sending) and I think it’s just like making me feel like I crossed a boundary. I’m just very antsy

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Anonymous OP 5w

Well was she involved in those conversations?

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Anonymous #1 5w

She was present and she talked about her experiences, but it was mainly questions asked between my male coworker and I (directed at each other)

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Anonymous OP 5w

Please just ask her out straight up the games are what’s killing you

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Anonymous #5 5w

agreed with 5

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Anonymous #1 4w

We watched the movie together. I’m just nervous to bring it up because she’s a coworker in my lab. If she’s not interested I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable. That’s kinda why I’m not trying to make moves unless she gives a clear sign that she’s interested. But I also don’t know if I’d recognize if she was interested if she did send a signal unless she straight up asked me on a date.

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