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My gf has a foul mouth and honestly so do I, but not around my mom. My mom visited recently and my gf still said terrible foul things and my mom just rolled with it, but it bothered me. Idk if I should bring it up or if that’ll just start a fight.
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Anonymous 3d

I would say bring it up but in a very understandable way. You can say something like “hey I totally understand that is the way how we speak around eachother but maybe can you try to not do it so much around my parents?” I would say approach it in a gentle way, if she’s sensitive then if you come at it too strong she might take it the wrong way. I’m also the sensitive type so I understand haha

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Anonymous 3d

i don't think that sounds like the kind of thing that would start a fight if you handled it calmly but idk your gf

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

She’s highly sensitive to anything that can be perceived as criticism.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

then don't bring it up ig

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Not worth it? Yeah. I agree. I’ll just apologize to my mom and not say anything about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

If you don’t communicate about it now it might build up which can cause a later argument which could have been avoided

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