i was kinda on the sense of, well you’re a dude and that’s how dating works but tbh it sounds like she’s using you if you’re helping pay for she school shit atp lol. you’re not her piggy bank, set the boundary

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I would be perfectly fine with it if it actually seemed like she appreciated it. It’s like whenever I get her lunch, she just expects me to whip out my wallet and pay. I just want her to every once in a while surprise me or something. Like actually recognize that I’m employed college student and have may other necessities I need to pay for. But no. She sleeps till 3, skips class, has no job, and lives at my apartment rent free. Just had to rant. Thank you.

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she's a bum

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You’re obviously unhappy why stay together?

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She’s spoiled as hell and needs a reality check. There are people out there who will appreciate you, and make sure to give back. You can date them instead

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