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Relationship Advice 5d
I (M) recently found out my bf of one year was sexting with another guy. He claims it was just that one time and that he never has met up with him or anyone else. As I checked his phone I saw red flag after red flag. There’s more to it not sure what to do
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Anonymous 5d

Thats still cheating by the way it’s called micro cheating

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Anonymous 2d

whether he cheated or not, he is not loyal to you. if he had respect for you he would not act like that behind your back.

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Anonymous 5d

Personally I’d dump him. Not even in an angry way, just that I know myself and I know I’d never trust him again and so there’s no point in staying together.

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Anonymous 4d

I went through this with my ex bf. He sexted other girls but didn’t meet up. It’s still cheating and I left him and I’m glad I did. The trust is gone once someone cheats and lies about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

There’s more to it but what would you do moving forward?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I would confront him about all the red flags you saw and see what he says if he sounds legit but tbh I’d not let this go. I had cases like this in the past where I just ended things after our conversation together

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

I did when I found out, he denied at first but then can clean, he said it was the first time and never met up with anyone. He says he sorry and continues to apologize and reassure he’s never done anything. Just not sure what to do asked for some space

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Everyone is saying to leave and I get it tbh, how did you like gain the courage to get up and leave? I told him I needed space but haven’t had the courage to sit down with my thoughts and break everything down take a decision.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I got the courage when I finally snapped out of being sad and realized I deserve way better. Loyalty is the bare minimum in a relationship

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