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my boyfriend has been drinking a lot and I don’t like it. He drinks alone, and especially before he has to do anything. We go to a group meeting every Thursday and he has to have a drink before we go “for confidence”. I’m honeslty disappointed
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Anonymous 6w

idrk what to do about it I’ve tried talking to him about it he just gets angry when I tell him to stop. I’m hoping he will listen soon once we go back to school.

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Anonymous 6w

is he possibly stressed out or going through something? have you talked to him about why he’s drinking so much? when you ask him he understanding and don’t try to tell him to stop this time because that might anger him

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Anonymous 4w

If you’re trying to help him through it and he pushes back, you should leave him. Often situations like that have a tendency to turn into domestic violence issues. It’s not your responsibility to heal him. You can’t help people who don’t want to help themselves.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

He’s not having a lot just like one or two every night but that’s not good for him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

It’s cus his dad and all his friends drink every night so he just does it with them :(

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