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I’m the more independent type while my boyfriend is the acts of services type (holding bags for me, opening doors for me, etc.) how do I start letting him do things for me without feeling guilty for it?
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Anonymous 26w

this is one where it's like, know your limits, let him do it as much as you're willing to allow, thank him and say you love him or however you acknowledge his love, and as soon as you feel it's too much, indicate that you want it dialed back a smidge, but most of all, always communicate

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