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does anyone else struggle with liking attention from someone but not the person themself? like, it’s obv not fair to them AT ALL to lead them on, so i try to turn them down but i miss their crush on me. i feel terrible & idk what to do abt it
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Anonymous 8w

that's pretty bad of you ngl

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Anonymous 7w

It sounds like you crave some type of companionship. You like the feeling of someone chasing you, but after you feel caught, you no longer want that. Have you ever delved deeper into why you feel like you need someone to chase you? You’re not a bad person for this but this can cause a lot of pain for the other end. I suggest you truly do doke soul searching and maybe talk to someone about this. I wish you well !

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Anonymous 8w

** to preface, i don’t go out with these people since i know i don’t feel the same. it sucks that i miss the attention. idk what to do abt it

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