Don’t give residents personal phone numbers or snapchat. Be firm about policy but not an asshole. I always talk to my residents about policy from an angle of “i don’t want to get you in trouble. I am here to keep you safe. I understand we are college students and are gonna do college student things” Be present and visible! Once my residents started seeing me out in common areas more often my relationship with them improved! (Plus its a great way to get 1 on 1s done)