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Roommate Rants 3w
Had to end my friendship with my close friend and roomate because her bf and their friends literally bullied me and she never stood up for me. My apartment complex makes it hard to switch roomates; but idk if I can endure her having them over while I’m
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Anonymous 3w

Did you have a roommate agreement upon moving in?

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Anonymous 3w

While I’m there. Do I have the right to say they are not allowed over or report to my complex office/security that those certain people are not allowed at my house. When I say they bullied me, I literally wanted to kill myself. I do not want them in my apartment AT ALL. pls give advice before I go insane.

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Anonymous 3w

i think what you should do first is talking to her one on one and saying exactly what happened and how you feel, if she didn’t defend you though it is unlikely she will take you seriously and might tell her bf/friends about it so just be aware of that. definitely email/set an appointment with your RA AND housing while bringing it up with your apartment complex just so everyone is aware of the issue. Make sure she knows what actions you will be taking if your space and yourself isn’t respected.

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Anonymous 3w

on the other hand, i truly hope you figure this out and everything always works out in the end ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

There have been many convos about it, she agreed to stop having them over when we were still friends but said she couldn’t stand up for me bc she didn’t want to fight with her bf or his friends. This lead to me ending the friendship, idk if now that the friendship is over she won’t care about our agreement to not have them over and will have them over to spite me now.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

What really pissed me off was that even though she agreed to stop having them over was that she was 100% okay with these people blatantly disrespecting me and making me feel awful…that’s why I had to end the friendship and I gave her many chances.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Probably in the lease, but I think it just covered general things

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Then hon I would just be honest about it with your roommate and if they can’t respect you I’d file a complaint

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