Roommate Rants on Yik Yak | “You’re victimizing yourself” bc I’m worried about a person I hurt and my mental health tanked. Meanwhile someone who wasn’t there used it as an excuse to not come in to shift bc they were uncomfortable?? Dude you can be mad but we need people at work??

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Roommate Rants 4d

“You’re victimizing yourself” bc I’m worried about a person I hurt and my mental health tanked. Meanwhile someone who wasn’t there used it as an excuse to not come in to shift bc they were uncomfortable?? Dude you can be mad but we need people at work??

Anonymous 2d

Hm… what did you do to hurt that person you’re worried about? Depending on the situation it makes sense for people to avoid you, some things aren’t forgivable and people have their own traumas that can be triggered.

Anonymous

#1 2d

It’s something that yes I’m in the wrong for, but the person who is making themselves a victim is turning it into a massive production. They knew that we had shift together and they didn’t try to find coverage or anything and decided to make it a huge deal as the shift was starting about them not coming in. Which I know that the others involved do not want.

Anonymous

OP 2d

Tell them that they are crossing the boundaries of the people affected by making a scene like that. They may be trying to make others aware of your actions and shame you, or shame you personally idk, but if they don’t care how they’re affecting the actual victims then maybe you can complain to a higher up about it.

Anonymous

#1 2d

Yeah. I don’t care if people know about me, but the others involved do not want that. They just want to move on (their words)

Anonymous

#1 2d

I finally got to talk to my therapist about the entire situation. Told him everything that happened and everything that my friends said. He told me that when the ones who actually are technically, the victims are ready to talk to them, but he also said that this does not seem like as big as others are making it/what I did wasn’t wrong or abnormal

Anonymous

OP 2d

When I mentioned talking to the ones who were affected one of my friends got pissed and said my therapist is a bad therapist. Ive barely been in therapy im sorry i dont know that??