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My roommate got broken up with earlier this year and has proceeded to indulge in a downward spiral of mass proportions. He gets drunk every single day and absolutely destroys our apartment and never cleans it up. i don’t even know how to deal with his bs
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Anonymous 3d

Please get your school counselor involved. PLEASE.

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Anonymous 3d

After a certain point (which your roommate seems to be at), the best thing you can do is give them appropriate consequences for those actions. Report the destruction to the landlord and look into your options for breaking the lease. Take him to court for everything of yours he destroyed. If you feel it necessary (as in it starts to get dangerous) get the police involved.

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Anonymous 2d

do we have the same roommate

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Anonymous 2d

Layten???

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Anonymous 1d

My roommate did this, I had to sit them down multiple times and tell them they needed professional help and that their actions were disrespectful and not ok. We don’t talk anymore and it’s very awkward but they stopped a good portion of that behavior in the house. They still act crazy and we still have issues but it’s not as bad as it was

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Anonymous 2d

offer to be his rebound 😏😏

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

i have. multiple times. they won’t do anything about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

That’s so fucking evil. maybe ask him for family you can call? Or friends? he clearly can’t deal with that himself.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Get the RA involved, or landlord and say he’s trashing the place. They’ll kick him out or move him somewhere else

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

is kicking him out gonna help him?

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 2d

tAkE hIm To cOuRt fuck you bitch ass nigga fuck you doing in court for suck a homeless man dick before you do all that shit since it’s so common for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2d

He breaks OP’s stuff he needs to pay for it. He’s most likely gonna resist given the scenario so small claims court. Also I’m white AF

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

also coke too?¿

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

damn sounds like my ex word for word

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

OP has reached the point where helping him may lead to them getting hurt since he chose such a destructive path. The best thing for OP right now is to separate themself from this behavior until he chooses to change. Sometimes being hit with reality in the form of natural consequences to their actions are better at showing destructive individuals what path their on than just talking.

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 1d

you're assuming he's breaking OPs stuff tho, were did OP say that? he said "destroying the apartment" in the post which realistically could be even just leaving snack wrappers out on the table or whatever. you're just assuming the worst.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Destroying could also mean staining or spilling something on an item to the point of irreparable damage, not just tearing something apart. I’m more saying don’t feel bad for charging him for those things if they are destroyed. I’m just covering all the bases as, like you, I don’t know what the apartment looks like.

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 1d

to clear things up, I mean that he got drunk spilled a shit tom of alcohol on out table and on the floor. left probably two dozen empty beer bottles around the living room and kitchen, and spilled hot sauce all over our wall somehow. I was away for the weekend and came back to that mess and he still hasn’t fully cleaned up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Ok so that’s a stained/warped table depending on the material, either stained carpet or potentially warped hardwood (bare minimum a sticky mess), and a stained wall. Worst case scenario that’s coming out of the shared deposit to fix unless he either takes full responsibility for paying or you take him to court.

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