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My roommates leave me out all the time even though we’re in the same friend group. There’s a whole separate group chat that I’m not in that I know about and all I ever do is try and make everyone happy. I’m just not enough I guess.
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Anonymous 1d

You are enough!!! They just sound like stereotypical mean popular girls. It’s so hard to be treated like this but it’s NOT because YOU aren’t enough. Yes, they might be judging you but that would most likely just be because you aren’t mean like them or someone who peaked in high school. It’s so hard to get out of the mindset that it’s your fault, because there *is* always a reason for people to act the way they do, but that reason is not valid.

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Anonymous 1d

So this is me too

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Anonymous 23h

No same: mine goes out smoking and leaves me in the dorm. No invitation or anything, then other friends join the smoke walk when I try to plan things I get ignored so idk anymore

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Anonymous 1d

Damn it’s just me in my room

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Anonymous 17h

OH MY GOD ME TOO THIS ALSO IS HAPPENING TO ME HELP

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Are they friends with anyone outside of their group?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Also i want you to know that my best friend was kicked out of her quad/suite without even being told about it. She was in the same situation as you of being in the friend group but not IN the friend group. She’s the sweetest person on earth and so kind and caring, yet they still isolated her and decided on their own that she wouldn’t dorm with them the next year. They never even told her until she asked about room plans for the next year and they said she wouldn’t be with them anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

And this is someone who is an incredible friend to everyone. Mean popular kids like to stick with their group and will judge ANYONE who’s not like them. In this case she was a better person than them and i think they disliked her for that. But I’m honestly not 100% sure if that was why or if it was because of something else; these types of people sometimes just dislike anyone outside of their group for no reason. She did absolutely nothing wrong, and I imagine you didn’t either

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

you are enough girl. pls don’t change anything about you as a person bc you don’t have to be fitting in with them and their behaviors. you’re not mean and don’t fit the stereo and that is fine.

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