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I made the brutal mistake of living with a best friend. I don’t think I genuinely like her anymore and idk what to do. She’s so much more bossy in everyday situations and I don’t like it
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Anonymous 5d

i see sm stories like this and it makes me so happy that i decided not to live with my friends 😭

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Anonymous 5d

try and set boundaries!! i know its hard but depending on how she reacts will dictate where the situation will go . hopefully communication can fix it!!

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Anonymous 5d

It’s why some marriages fail because they see eachother as roommates instead of partners

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Anonymous 5d

bro her and i were best friends and got along so well in the beginning but now she’s actually insufferable and i hate it…i wish i didn’t have to see her everyday so we could go back to normal 🥲

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Anonymous 5d

Clearly you weren’t best friends or close enough if this is happening and yoy can’t even tell them face to face

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Anonymous 5d

As someone who was in a situation like this and got through it with our friendship still intact- this doesn’t have to be the end!! You could be growing apart but you could also just be needing more space from each other. Just do ur best to be open about how ur feeling

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Anonymous 4d

She’s tells me how to recycle (I put a tuna can in the recycling bc it’s a can) and she tells me that I need to tell her who I’m having over and when they are leaving but she also doesn’t do her dishes and doesn’t take out the trash or put trash cans in the trash - so I’m paying for all of the trash cans- and I don’t want to start drama but I don’t know what I’m doing anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

it can go either way tbh. i live with some of my best friends and they are absolutely awesome to live with and it’s only made us closer

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5d

Sometimes you need to process things a little bit before you open up a discussion yk?

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