Ok I just want to say something! Cuz I’m not replying to these comments 1.) I was on call and speaker phone with the hospital while they were pronouncing my dad dead. She was beside me while I was balling my eyes out in shock and she started ranting about a guy she was texting on a dating app. I had to step out of the room because she wouldn’t stop. And yes I did ask for her to just stop for a second and she told me I was selfish.

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I promise I am not someone who invalidates peoples feelings, however living through the worst time of my life and having to hear someone who KNOWS what is happening and has happened complain about guys, her homework, and how much she misses her family when they are 15 ish minutes away while mine are now all dead or 18 hours away. Is SO inconsiderate and I feel so inferior to everything. I don’t need support but I don’t need someone else’s problems on my conscious. Especially when I ask for peace

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hey so is she aware of any of that and do ur problems compare? not at all which means u should stop comparing. yes its terrible for u to be going through that, but it doesn't minimize anything she is also going through.

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Does she know any of this? Have you communicated this to her?

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I understand your frustration and I’m so sorry for your loss, but invalidating someone else’s feelings is really not the move. It’s clear that both of you are going through a tough time and maybe it would be better to be each other’s rocks than to post passive-aggressively online about it

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So sorry for your loss, I hope your roommate stops being a jerk

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hey so she probably has feelings too? my dad passed away recently too but I understand other people have a right to be upset about things that happen

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