Establish open communication and house rules quickly. This includes figuring out how to collect rent and utilities from everyone. Basically hold a meeting with everyone to work out any specifics before they have a chance to become a problem

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need rules for everything that everyone agrees to. otherwise you'll start to hate eachother because one loaded the dishwasher incorrectly or is loud when they get up early, and being pissed off impedes effective communication. no matter how chill u and your friend are, you'll still end up bitter at eachother over some house shit, just bc its stressful to live with others. my best friend and i are on a break from living together right now 😅 i do prefer it to living w a stranger though

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like the other comments said, definitely establish house rules, a chore list, etc. asap!!!! Also maybe schedule recurring “family” meetings because it gives you all a set opportunity for open communication and having to talk something out would feel less awkward. But fs come to an agreement between all of you that if an issue does arise that has to do with sharing a living environment, IT IS NOT PERSONAL! :)

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Type up a living agreement with your roommates outlining the terms of shared living arrangements with house rules, clarified responsibilities, and set expectation for expenses, chores, and guest policies. It’s not legally binding but if you have everyone sign and agree to it and make copy’s it could help during your lease agreement.

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Talk about anything bothering you (nicely) so your roommates know not to do certain things. I like to say ‘hey don’t do that because (reason, feelings, etc)’ then not act too upset about it and try not to make them feel bad

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