Does y’all have your own rooms?

23

This has to be bait. Girl, unless there’s something wrong with the bf (criminal record, past creepy interactions, etc), you have to compromise and let her bring him over once or twice a week. Even if there IS something wrong with him, you have to communicate that with her and talk it out. She lives there, she pays bills, she gets to have guests over sometimes.

19

You’re in the wrong .

13

if yall share a room i understand bc my dorm rm never asked i would just come back from class and he would be chillin in our room, then she would kick me out and send me to our suitemates room so they could fuck. but if yall have your own room more than likely they will be staying in there most of the time, so it seems unfair that you just get to say no to her having her bf sleep over. especially if yall are both paying bills

13

If you have your own room, they’re not being obnoxious in common rooms, or being noisy in bed you’re the problem

11

You both pay rent. If separate rooms, you are the problem…

7

Every once in a while is fine but all the time no

5

you better not get mad when you want to have someone sleep over and she tells you no

3

If she has her own room in the apartment you ought to get over yourself puritan! If you share a room, that’s weiirddd

1

Yall notice how she ain’t responding to NONE of yall

1

I 100% get that. Sure yall may be in separate rooms but that doesn’t mean he will stay there. He could walk out at any moment and be there while you aren’t and could mess in your stuff thinking it is hers at any time. It’s uncomfortable as hell. Your home should make you comfortable. They can go to his if it’s not that big of a deal

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She should respect that tbh, I would never do that to my roomie if they were uncomfortable. It’s probably also a violation of the lease to have people sleepover more than a few nights

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