not having the privacy you expected because your roommate added another man to the list unofficially is wild and in no way should be expected to just accept. say u don’t think abt others without saying it. ik damn well i would hate to walk to my kitchen fresh from a shower and see a random dude sitting on the couch chillen. It’s not HIS space so therefore she has the right to be annoyed regardless on if the other roommate pays to be there too. She pays for HER space not her BFs.