My sister and I live together (massive mistake #1) and we just moved into a new place. Power was on in the leasing companies name and just got shut off today but I’ve been having trouble getting it switched over. I’ve been calling literally all day and it kept telling me to wait for a callback. She got home from work and told me to keep trying but the last few times I called they told me the earliest callback would be tomorrow. This is what I told her. So she went to her room and apparently (1)
Ordered ice (I didn’t know this) and I decided to try one last work around I hadn’t thought of. I called and got through to a rep and they were working on transferring our service. I didn’t think they were gonna be able to get it on tonight. They did and the second they did, I told my sister. Apparently her ice was already here. She was a little upset she had spent money and didn’t need to but she wasn’t clearly angry or anything and didn’t try to talk about it. She went to her room to (2)
Call her boyfriend (my rooms right next to hers) and I can hear her screaming on the phone talking shit about me, saying I lack common sense and basic communication skills because I didn’t tell her I was going to try one last time. Even tho the second I realized it was coming on tonight I told her. So I knocked on her door and told her if she was gonna talk shit about me on the phone, could she at least not do it so loud so I don’t have to sit here and listen to her shit talking me. (3)
I told her if she would have had a conversation with me I would have offered to reimburse her for the ice because I understand the power thing was my fault. But she sits there and continues to talk shit and tells me I should have apologized for not telling her I was going to call again. Me personally, I don’t apologize unless I mean it because I want my apologies to mean something. So I was not going to apologize for not immediately running and telling her that I was going to try and call (4)
One more time when I didn’t know she was ordering ice or anything. I truly don’t think I was in the wrong there but let me know if yall think otherwise. Then she starts saying I had no consideration for her because I didn’t tell her before I called. ? You didn’t have a convo with me but you’re scream shit talking me and I CAN HEAR YOU! But I sent the money for ice.Then her bf texts me and tells me he knows I wasn’t being malicious, she’s just stressed out. Like that doesn’t mean she wasn’t wrong