I genuinely love the idea of the statement because it feels like a funny way to combat the “boys will be boys” stereotype. But when people use it genuinely, they’re stupid. I use it for fun yeah, and I won’t hide that. But it’s a joke playing on my own clumsiness/forgetfulness/silliness, not a genuine excuse
The reason I care is she used me as a job reference as we used to work together but suddenly she just has this horrible work ethic after starting the new job. This makes me look bad because the place where she’s working has ties to places where I’m supposed to be at in the future. She also complains to me about not having money and tries to force her Aunt to pay for her dates because she couldn’t keep her job.