Anonymous OP 3d

Even though I have 2 bed rooms and a living room. So l'd sleep on the couch and they'd wake me from my night terrors which are worse when they're there. Imagine fucking that. I have trauma and they will not allow me to have my space. I flat out banned them from my apartment. Only reason I would listen half the time was genuine fear of them hurting themselves (they say I'm the only reason they didn't off themself at the end of last semester). One time he watched my dog when I was at a party and

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Anonymous OP 3d

When I was dropped off I was drunk, and he thought it was 100% ok to get into my bed with me. I was too drunk to understand there was another person in my bed until I woke up the next morning. He was just supposed to take my dog out and leave. Another time me and my older friend were drinking and I said that I was scared of this guy assaulting me. Apparently he heard that and went into the bathroom to cry. But dude, if I'm saying that, if I'm telling you to leave. Then leave. I feel so trapped

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Anonymous OP 3d

I'm terrified. I think that they're coming to my apartment when I'm not there but I don't have proof. I'm scared. I lock the door but I’m just so scared. They told people they lived with me. NOT TRUE. I feel trapped

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Anonymous OP 3d

And this is when I was playing a game late. They tested me out of nowhere:

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Anonymous OP 3d

They keep trying to gaslight me and telling me that I need to give them space and I shouldn’t talk to them for a week. But whenever we do try to do that, they’re the one who messages me. Over fucking yik yak

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 3d

Yeah. I live off campus so student service can’t do much. I have stuff being done to my apartment but it’s just taking a bit

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 3d

apartment. Keep in mind that he is still under the age of 18 so his parents may be involved to some degree during this process but ultimately this guy has majorly overstepped your boundaries despite being told many times to stop so now you need to do what is in your best interest and your safety.

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 3d

The one time I asked him to watch my dog, he said he wished that he had drank some of my alcohol while I was gone. Needless to say he was never alone in my apartment after that. He also tries to say to people that I’m an alcoholic, even though I don’t even drink once a week and kind of only do it on special occasions/when specific people come to visit.

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Anonymous OP 3d

I understand that you do live off campus. The no contact order on campus is to keep them from seeking you out while you were there for classes to talk to you directly.

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 3d

The thing is, they never do that. They never come to me on campus or anything, they know it’s the dumbest thing they could do because of my reputation on campus being pretty decent. I always have people around.

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Anonymous OP 3d

I’m also about to graduate so part of me just doesn’t want to put something on this guy’s record when he’s a dumb teen

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Anonymous OP 3d

Like I don’t know, I still feel kind of protective over this person because at one point they were just kind of my friend and not a Creep

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Anonymous OP 3d

Oh yeah, they have also posted about Me/directly posted things that I said, and any time I tell them to stop they try to justify it in the most bullshit ways and they told me that I’ve posted about them before… Yes, vaguely enough to where nobody could tell who was. He has flat out taken direct quotes that I have saidand people could easily figure out who it was.

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Anonymous OP 3d

If it suits you better, I would still go ahead with the blocking and be contacting the landlord, but you can save the no contact order for if they do end up trying to harass you on campus. I get that he is young and this could potentially ruin his reputation but at the same time he is too old to not know what he’s doing so to be denying him appropriate consequences, especially at a stage where it is still easy to hide or will have less of an impact, is only going to hurt him long-term.

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Anonymous OP 3d

I get that you probably still see him as a friend but he has crossed some major boundaries and needs to be cut off, preferably before he has the chance to go any further.

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 3d

Yeah, I feel bad. He says I’m the only reason he didn’t off himself last semester but that feels REALLY manipulative

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Anonymous OP 3d

That’s because it is. You are not responsible for his mental health

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Anonymous #3 3d

I haven’t even dropped the bomb on you guys yet. Supposedly he’s a diagnosed sociopath and also autistic. I have no way to test if the sociopath part is true but anyone who makes that up has got to be crazy.

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Anonymous OP 1d

so immediately buy security cameras that record, my family uses ring, but any that record with video and audio would be good. also looking at your other comments if you really think he will off himself and you have a way to contact his parents, tell them the situation and if you think it’s severe the police as well. that’s not fair to use that to keep yourself with someone that causes you this much fear and anxiety

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