i’m currently going through the same thing, my roommate wouldn’t understand me when i brought up a boundary and completely cut of contact with me and our other 2 roommates. now whenever she comes home she’s slamming doors, talking super loud, and bringing people over whenever she wants

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How lonely I am and I don’t really have time to even try to start a relationship right now. I know that’s makes it dumb and that I’m being dumb because I wouldn’t be in a relationship anyway but it’s just impossible to ignore. I’m hella insecure about my friendships to begin with and I hate being left out of things and now that they are dating I’m left out of pretty much everything we used to due to together. I just don’t know what to do cause I really value their friendships and I’m not even ha

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Im sorry ur going through a rough time and lowkey it sounds like u have a lot to work through on ur own but I don’t think it’s fair to say that she ruined ur mental health— bc if it only took one week of ur roommate just spending more time with another person than u to ruin ur mental health, then ur mental health was def already shit to begin with babe

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