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Tip: confront them today, as soon as it bothers you. Too many of y’all are sitting with an issue and letting it ruminate. POLITELY state your boundaries or issues and I’d likely get solved quickly
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Anonymous 6w

This is a struggle because I don’t feel like I should have to teach people to treat me. Fr

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Anonymous 6w

Please help- what to do if have mentioned boundaries or issues more than once and problems still keep happening

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Anonymous 6w

Me when it took 2 months for someone to address something I was doing after confronting her about it (she sent a long angry paragraph instead of trying to be civil about it)

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Anonymous 6w

Hey so actually she’s tried to tell me how to properly practice my religion and told me I should be homophobic!! I’m working on moving out 😌

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Anonymous 5w

the timing of this is crazy

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Anonymous 5w

Hey so I was called immature and inconsiderate for simply stating that they broke our WRITTEN agreement 😋

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Anonymous 5w

This!!! Please tell people. This is especially helpful for neurodivergent people who can’t read social cues, but you should do this with everyone. Stop hiding shit from people for no reason

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Anonymous 5w

Roommate left trash out and I asked about it. One in particular was fruit sitting in the sink. It was only there for a “few” hours and was getting thrown away apparently. The trash can sits at the end of the counter. It takes 10 seconds to throw it away. Why leave it? 💀

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Anonymous 5w

this needs to be pinned at the top of this community

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

escalate the situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Exactly- why am I raising and cleaning up after grown adults

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

The problem is life is unfair. It’s not your responsibility but it is your problem regardless

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

You do cause literally everyone except for like 1000 people on earth are fucking idiots

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

if you’ve clearly and explicitly mentioned it before multiple times, they’re doing it consciously and on purpose. that’s not someone you need to keep around imho ❤️❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

I feel this truth in my soul

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

You don’t. You just have to accept that people can only love you as much as much as they can. They can only do as much for you as THEY can do. Holding other people to your personal standards is never productive

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Except you absolutely do. And this idea that you don’t have tell ppl how to treat you is just your ego. Everyone is coming from a different life perspective with different boundaries and different experiences. You can’t just expect people to treat you how you want to be treated. That’s not how reality works, so stand Ik for yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I get petty and start doing shit that would bother them, or be a real bitch.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 5w

Well what was the agreement and how was it stated

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 5w

same thing happens to me bruh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

That they couldn’t have people over past a certain time on school nights or if they did that we all had to agree on it and that they had to be quiet. They were letting loud ass people stay over until 3:00 am when they knew I had an early class the next day.

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