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am i crazy for not wanting to update my roommate (who doesn’t live at the apartment we have together) about who comes in and out?? none of it affects her even slightly.
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Anonymous 7w

Who the hell pays for an apartment they don’t live at? No it’s not crazy to keep her out of the loop

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Anonymous 7w

As someone who was kept out of the loop, I don’t care as long as it’s within reasonable hours/ you’re not disrespectful. My old roommate would bring in random ass people at like 12-3 am and play board games or watch movies while SCREAMING. Mind you I was in school and had to try to go to bed but couldn’t. So as long as you’re respectful and thoughtful of who you bring in, it’s ok to keep her out of the loop. If someone comes over later at night, it’s probably fine but it’s respectful to tell her

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

I definitely would if she was actually living there! I would expect the same but she hasn’t lived in our apartment since april so it would affect her in any way.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Omg wait I didn’t read that part don’t tell her omg. She does not need to know

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