“Hey bestie, you need to get that checked out. The only time I’ve ever almodt passed out while driving like you seem to do every other day was when I had been up for 40 continuous hours after a red-eye flight.” “I guess I’ll stop talking to you about it, because now every time I do it’ll be followed by ‘Get Thine Ass To A Doctor’” This exchange literally just happened. What the fuck
If someone passes out behind the wheel of a car you can report them and their license will be suspended until they’ve gone a certain amount of time without passing out :) just a fun fact (coming from someone with a disability that can cause fainting spells in some people, so I’m well aware of the driving laws around it lol)
You’re like me sis, giving till the point where it’s hurting you too. Try establishing clear boundaries but start the convo with “I’m upset and stressed because I care about you.” You can talk about things like loud music and other strategies so they understand there’s more options, but say you’re unavailable for long periods of calling on a basis of the stress it’s giving both of you. If they won’t get medical help (which is very easy, we have the health center) then it’s not on you dog
Enough to at least try, it’s genuinely unsafe for them to be on the road. At the very least it could be noted do law enforcement gets an alert if they ever get pulled over for something (esp if it’s related like swerving outside of their lanes or not following road signs including speed limits)
At what point did I imply I don’t pick up? Like, yeah, I keep her awake during her delivery shifts. Because if I don’t, people could die. In WHAT FUCKING WAY is that an appropriate amount of responsibility to be forced upon me when she could also GO TO A DOCTOR and try and get the problem solved?
You get a text one day (sent by siri, they don’t text in the car) that says “hey, I just almost passed out on the highway, can I call you?” and you say yes, because that’s your friend and they appear to be in mortal danger and picking up the phone is the LEAST you can do, and then it happens again. and again. and again. until it’s a weekly thing. then less.
I’d say it’s worth bringing up to her. Low b12 has a really wide range of symptoms. It can mess with you neurologically and mentally and it is really super common in adult women. This goes for anyone honestly-have your dr add b12 next time you get routine labs or whatever. It’s an easy test and fix but it will fuck you up if it’s low
Depends. I have narcolepsy and I drive, but I am medicated. Before I was medicated though I limited myself to only driving maybe 30 mins to an hour at a time, not continuously, and I made sure I took a nap before hand. Some people have it worse and can’t drive at all and others aren’t as bad.
Idk…I wouldn’t take any supplements without discussing with a doctor. 1. Supplements aren’t regulated and can have literally anything in them (fda doesn’t even check until someone gets hurt/sick by them) 2. A lot of supplements aren’t designed to be the bio available version, so you’re mostly paying to make your piss expensive 3. Messing with your body without checking what’s wrong can end up doing more harm than good (like b-12 for ex can cause tingling or harm your kidneys)
Supplemental b12 is super tricky, b12 is best absorbed in the blood rather than your digestive tract. You tend to pass it right through especially when your levels are extremely low. Hematologist rarely if ever prescribe an oral b12. If you have a normal b12 and want to maintain it because as you grow older naturally it produces less and less, supplemental may work enough for said person.