this happened to me last year! and she was so so so messy & incredibly inconsiderate & never left ☺️ deadass nip it in the bud & talk to ur roommate bc u didn’t sign up to have an extra roommate!! + if u live in an apt, then it’s most likely in violation of ur lease to have someone stay over more than like 3ish nights in a row—that’s how i had to handle my situation bc this girl was acc terrorizing me and my other roomies :)

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Yeah a once in a while thing is fine but if it’s constantly you do have to say something, especially if you’re getting uncomfortable with how she’s cooking in her bra and underwear (which yk valid cause I’d be weirded out by that too). You can even phrase it like she’s nice and blah blah blah but it makes me uncomfortable with how often she’s over, especially when she stays her for extended periods of time when you’re not here and it seems like she’s more than a guest at this point

15

Tell him if she’s not gonna pay rent or bills that she needs to leave and can’t be there for more than x amount of days a week, bc you’ll end up paying for her water and electricity usage

11

Lemme do that for you

-1

Sleep with her, maybe then he’ll understand

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