Roommate Rants on Yik Yak | Friend said they didn’t want to talk to me anymore bc I said I wanted to party and drink and sleep with people and just feel in control and be wild. Same night they’re telling me they’re horny. I told them about how they’re being a hypocrite and…

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Roommate Rants 16w

Friend said they didn’t want to talk to me anymore bc I said I wanted to party and drink and sleep with people and just feel in control and be wild. Same night they’re telling me they’re horny. I told them about how they’re being a hypocrite and…

Anonymous 16w

Is this a friend of the opposite gender? Cause it’s giving a man child misunderstanding your relationship

Anonymous 16w

I could understand not being friends with someone who quote “wants to be wild” but drinking and partying as the life values don’t match up BUT trying to get with OP in the next breath is willllldddddd!!!! That seems like a man trying to get an “easy” ride from someone he thinks he can get. Absolutely not.

Anonymous 16w

…lectured them about it. At the end they still asked if I wanted to do things. The reason? “You tell me about your sex life so I don’t understand what you want”. The fact that I have to explain me talking about something is not the same asking it from them. They have also told me about their experiences, though they really don’t have a lot so maybe they’re jealous :/

Anonymous 16w

I should add: he’s said he liked me in HS (4+ years ago). He’s tried to get with me before and I shot him down. I’m friends with him bc I genuinely feel bad as he lost friends when someone made false claims (there was hard evidence of it being false). He’s never done anything over the line but like DUDE MOVE ON

Anonymous 16w

I can understand, I’ve also been having to change the people in my life and as an autistic person it makes it horrible when I have too. I just didn’t realize how shitty my “friends” were. But you’ll get there one day. You’ll make new friends and grow! i suggest therapy bc it helps me :)

Anonymous

#1 16w

Pretty much. Same person who didn’t wanna work, but then we complain about not having money. Tried to get with me after a horrible break up. Says it’s bc “horny brain” doesn’t think. Look I have serious trauma that leads me to be hyper sexual but then cry afterwards and even *I* don’t do this. I still think bc I’m not an idiot and I’m able to keep these feeling TO MYSELF (or between me and significant other)

Anonymous

OP 16w

**would complain

Anonymous

#2 16w

Yup. I also went through a break up VERY recently and it really hurt me, but he doesn’t want me to talk about my ex, even thought it’s me just saying I’m upset about it all (unfortunate circumstances we couldn’t control driving us apart as it worsened my mental health)

Anonymous

OP 16w

Oh yeah absolutely, you may need to take space from him most def

Anonymous

#2 16w

I have, we only started talking again a week ago. Hurts my heart that I may have to cut off my last highschool friend that I talk to. I have a hard time with social change and there’s been so much change this year with finally cutting off toxic college friends :(

Anonymous

#2 16w

Haha I’m in therapy. They want me tested for autism and other stuff

Anonymous

OP 16w

That could be a possibility, and getting clarification and support for your needs is important! I also have learned that I’m either perceived as rude or “flirting” due to my social cues (tho I’m getting better)

Anonymous

#2 16w

See I’m never told that. They say I’m just weird/awkward. Which I’m fine with lol

Anonymous

OP 16w

I think the guy you talked about might’ve thought you were trying to flirt when you said you wanted to sleep around (but idk cause I wasn’t there lol) and that’s honestly so valid. I’m absolutely weird and awkward but when overstimulated I can come off rude.

Anonymous

#2 16w

See, here’s the thing. He says he thought I wanted him bc I was talking about experiences with my most recent ex. He hated the idea of me sleeping around, that’s not what he saw as the “green light”. And the fact that this was so soon after a break up it hurts. I miss having people, friends, bf, just anyone around

Anonymous

OP 16w

That’s understandable, being alone is very hard but ewwwwww wtf bro (him not you) I’ve had those discussions with my girl friends before and they absolutely weren’t wanting me it’s just discussions we have. Have you tried making new friends at your college or joining a club???

Anonymous

#2 16w

Yes. I’m not good at making friends and the ones I did make always treated me as “second tier” or just wanted my help with class. For example I had a really nice group but then they kicked me from the group chat bc they thought I had posted smth on yik yak (wasn’t me) and they never added me back in bc “it wasn’t up to them”. They tried to pin it on the one guy who showed me the chat (he had defended me and they were being rude). Me and him are friends but he’s leaving this semester.

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Anonymous

OP 16w

It was never the same with that group after that, even before he showed me the chat and I believed them, I saw them go to different events and take small trips to the mall and Buccees without asking if I wanted to go. I finally snapped at them one day right before finals but idk if it even made sense to them WHY it was so upsetting. I really try to make friends but then people start rumors and then people hate me. It’s happened for a long time. I don’t understand why it happened my whole life

Anonymous

OP 16w

And yes I know the whole “you’re the common factor” but I literally don’t do ANYTHING. I help people with class, offer to drive people, and just remember small things that make them happy. Since elementary school though I am the target for teasing, bullying, and people acting really fake towards me. My first semester of college there were people impersonating me on YY before I even had it and there was a rumor I cheated on my bf (not true, we had broken up and I was in my room CRYING all day)