Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
The concept of my random roommate going out of her way to ignore everyone, staying in her room constantly, declining invites to hang out, and then posting about not having friends on her story
256 upvotes, 5 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Roommate Rants. "The concept of my random roommate going out of her way to ignore everyone, staying in her room constantly, declining invites to hang out, and then posting about not having friends on her story"
upvote 256 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 3w

Lmao I was about to say this was me but I do NOT complain about not having friends

upvote 22 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 3w

I know sometimes people are just dramatic little bitches, but have you confirmed it’s not something like Pathological Demand Avoidance? There’s a small chance this might not be just drama and she needs actual mental health help.

upvote 11 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

(A little insight to show what I’m talking about: I have severe PDA, especially when it comes to friends because I was flat-out abused by “friends” at critical development points in childhood. Now when someone wants to hang out every –I’m alone at school so it’s old friends every few years or so– I assume it’s out of pity or guilt because I’m a pathetic loser –to be blunt– and I feel bad after because my brain thinks they don’t actually like me and that I am a social burden in their lives.)

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I honestly don’t know. She actively avoids me and our other roommates and refuses to talk to us about anything unless it’s related to the utilities. The walls are thing so occasionally I hear her talking on the phone, but as far as I know that’s the limit of her social interaction since she never leaves her room except to cook or go to class

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

REAL but i did just go to a friendsgiving last night, other than that im in my dorm like 24/7 besides class

upvote 1 downvote