
Ok can’t really do much about the fact that she thinks ignoring social cues is a “quirky” thing to do but as for the calls: 1. Tell her she either needs to be off the phone or in another room by quiet hours 2. Go to the RA about her violating quiet hours if 1 doesn’t work 3. Request a room change if 2 doesn’t work. And lastly, as an autistic woman who has struggled with social cues her whole life, doing it on purpose to be “quirky” ain’t cute.
it sucks because i’ve been her roommate for almost 2 years (we’re sophomores) and it was this bad last year and i really do like her but i hate her bf and i hate her being on the phone all the time. i have adhd and im sensitive to noises too so some sounds are like amplified so even if she is quietish it’s almost like it’s turned up in my ears. the social cues thing literally sucks because she thinks it makes tough but sometimes it makes me breakdown