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I wish my roommate had never moved in here. She’s claimed my friends as her own and it’s gotten to the point where if I have plans with them she crashes them and finds a way to make it all about her. Our plans get detoured cause she just so happened to
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Anonymous 1d

Have a “bad day” right before and they have to comfort her

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Anonymous 15h

Your ‘friends’ are spineless and you deserve better—they should not be enabling this kind of pick-me behavior 😭

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Anonymous 10h

Omg so similar like after rooming with my roomie my best friend basically became her best friend too, when me and my friend go to our club she shows up unannounced. Theres been so many times I found out they went places without me. She talks as if she’s friends with my friends from my club like half these ppl don’t consider her a friend fr. I really don’t feel like staying best friends with my friend like I’d rather just have her as a friend I greet or an acquaintance atp

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

I can’t really fault them for it right now. It took me a while to pick up on how it kept happening, she’s really good at putting on this charismatic mask and sucking people in

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Then you’re probably not the only one in the group with this opinion. Open a group chat and talk about it! If they’ve been friends with you longer, then they’ll probably side with you and you’ll find a way to slowly phase her out of the group, or you could just confront her directly?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

They are now gonna live together in an apartment. All the things me and my friend said we were gonna do are now barely gonna happen bc she keeps making excuses, if she didn’t wanna do them she should have told me at first. She also became more rude after. (Sorry I’m ranting, I just needed to get this off my chest)

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