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My roommate is horrible; he’s an incel, and I'm scared to bring my gf into my dorm because of him. Like what should I do? I feel bad always hanging out in my girl’s dorm because she has a roommate. For context, he NEVER LEAVES, and he also has no friends
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Anonymous 15h

Maybe ask for some time alone in the dorm? Preface it's not for weird reasons but just for some alone time since he's literally always there and people even without partners deserve alone time. And offer the same to him.

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Anonymous 14h

I’m sure your girlfriend understands

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Anonymous 10h

We are in the same situation bro…

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Anonymous 5h

you and your girlfriend should let her roommate know about the situation and why ur always at her place so her roommate’s aware that yall dont really have another choice and so she doesnt end up disliking you. now as someone who is no longer a freshman, that dorm belongs to you just as much as it belongs to him, and ur just as entitled to ur alone time. you need to have a talk with him abt giving you some alone time in the dorm cus that’s ridiculous

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Anonymous 6h

We might have the same roommate…..mine just plays league until 2 am

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

I'm never in the dorm because he's always on the game, and I've only done that once. I might do it again this week

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

Yeah

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