NEED ADVICE
In January, I (M19) Signed a lease with my best friend (M21) starting in the late summer. Since then, we’ve spent a lot of time together the last few months. Last week, he told me he had feelings for me. I’m straight and don’t feel the same.
You can just be honest and say you don’t swing that way but still value the friendship
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Anonymous19h
Never hurt to try something once
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Anonymous16h
I just gasped
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Anonymous#218h
I have, and I’m just worried about the dynamics of things living together
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AnonymousOP16h
You can always check in and ask how he's doing. Still include him in things so there is some normalcy. If he acts weird then that's on him. I've seen a lot of roommates have crushes and then it turns to a more platonic thing. Weird but it works out
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Anonymous#111h
Gtfo of here. He literally said he doesn't feel the same.
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Anonymous#49h
This yeah just keep doing things together like before, but still acknowledge the situation
The more time you spend tg platonically the more natural it will feel