It’s not disrespectful to do things in your bed when they aren’t there, depending on comfortability you talk to them about it. Freshman year my roommate and I shared each other’s locations and let each other know when we had someone over. You don’t got to tell them Every single time you do anything, just letting them know that someone is there will at least make sure they knock before coming in, and I would check their location before doing anything to make sure they wouldn’t be home soon

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Just be proactive about letting them know. I had some pretty shitty roommates last yr. And one of them was dating someone. They would often use the room while I wasn’t there, but there never told me about it. In such events that I would return before they would finish, I’d still accommodate. But sometimes even when notifying them when I’d be back they wouldn’t respect it and force me to work around them. I found it highly disrespectful. Don’t do that. Be proactive of letting roommates know.

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